I'm So Very Glad You Exist

Mi'kmaq Puoinaq Two Spirit Medicine

Sexuality and Gender Variance, Spirituality and Culture


Powerful medicine. A rare glimpse into sacred sexuality, gender, and identity. Honouring an often-hidden beautiful cultural landscape. Instructive, accessible, scholarly, relevant and practical. An insightful contribution to sexuality and gender, gay and lesbian, Native North American, and Indigenous studies. An integral textbook for courses in education, counselling, psychotherapy, psychology, social work, medicine, nursing, and health. Welcoming and empowering for youth, adults, and family. Dr Joseph Randolph Bowers is an Australian-Canadian Counsellor Psychotherapist and author of The Practice of Counselling, Sacred Teachings from the Medicine Lodge, and On the Threshold: Personal Transformation and Spiritual Awakening. Mi'kmaq Elder Dr Daniel N. Paul is a Canadian Historian and celebrated author of We Were Not the Savages: First Nations History. The authors reveal how Two Spirit and Traditional Medicine have always existed and are being rekindled in our times.


Contents

    The Authors

    Words from the Sacred Fire

    Acknowledgments

    Dedication


Foreword Elder Dr Daniel N. Paul

    Going Deeper in Our Story

    About this Book


Preface

    Personal Empowerment

    Post Colonial Contexts

    Culture & Spirituality

    Post Colonial Spirituality

    Of Books & Medicine Bundles


Mi'kmaq Tli'suti - Mi'kmaq Language

    Puoinaq as Space for Vision

    Language and Cultural Revival

    Language is Culture, Ecology, Spirit

    Mi'kmaw Words Associated with Identity, Gender, Sexuality, and Two Spirit


Two Spirit Ethics

    Relations of Respect

    Relational Norms

    Incest Taboo and Child Protection

    Childhood and Identity Formation

    Internet and Social Media

    Adult Survivors of Sexual Abuse

    Early Adult Initiation

    Drawing Firm Lines in the Sand

    Learning Our Ways, Unlearning Colonial Ways


Gender Identity, Gender Variance

    Analysis of Western Cultures

    Mi'kmaq History and Early Colonial Contexts

    Colonial Gender and Sexuality

    Colonial Gendered Relations

    19th Century Mi'kmaq and the Victorian Gender Paradox

    Two Spirit Contexts

    Stigma as Waning Moon

    Youth Suicide


Two Spirit Ways of Knowing

    Indigenous Standpoint

    Cultural Traditions

    The Kluskap Cycles

    The Switch Dance

    From Confusion to Sacred Ecology


Two Spirit Ceremony as Life

    Trauma and Healing Methods

    Death as Passage and Growth

    Medicine Sacred Circle as Science and Life

    Mi'kmaq Wholistic Ecological Model


Puoinaq Cultural Reawakening

    Visions of Mi'kmaw Research-as-Ceremony

    Challenges Ahead

    Mi'kmaq Oral Tradition

    Body-based Memory

    Decolonising the Sacred Sexual

    Mi'kmaq Cosmology


Two Spirit Medicine Teachings

    Initiation Ceremonies

    Men's and Women's Medicine

    Two Spirit Service and Skill

    Two Spirit Purpose and Vocation

    Depression - This Too Will Pass

    True Nature, True Identity


Two Spirit Oral Tradition

    The Wigwam of Family

    The Sacred Pipe of Family

    The Meaning of Traditional


Ambassadors of Memory

    Looking Back, Looking Forward

    From Plausible to Instructive

    Ancestral Memory and Recovery



A Tale of Two Spirits

    Ta'pu Miijaqamijjk Puoinaq Paq'tism

    Wanderer

    Waking Up

    Rising Up on Wings

    Raven's Two Eyed Seeing

    Paq'ism Arising

    Paq'tism Awakening

    Surrender... Please...

    Shadow as Passage to Life

    Embracing Shadows

    Two Spirits Becoming Whole

    Sa'qawei Paq'tism Speaks


Two Spirit Narrative of Origins

    Kepmitelsi Two Spirit Pride

    Ancient Old Ones- Two Spirit Beings

    Conference of the Four Winds

    The Two Spirit Vision

    Ancient Grandmother Turtle Pipe

    Two Spirit Healing of Nations

    Teaching the First Mi'kmaq

    Prophesies of Great Suffering

    The First Two Spirit Mi'kmaq

    The Great Suffering

    A Vision For our Children

    Visions of Hope